Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Deja Vu All Over Again


Whenever I go to see family or friends I'm always telling myself to take tons of pictures.  Then I get back home with only a handful of pictures and end up taking a bunch with our kids playing on the floor.  I didn't even take this one!  Perhaps someday I'll learn.

If you go back to day 1 on the blog (link) you'll notice this toy phone is making its 2nd appearance.

Friday, June 25, 2010

My Take - The Global Achievement Gap



I've officially crossed the line into old man territory.  For father's day I unwrapped a book light and Kindle case -- both of which I desperately wanted.  I had been frustrated with my old reading light which took 2 AAA batteries and died in 5-6 hours... flat out ridiculous.  Now I have a light that takes 1 AAA and lasts for 20 hours.  As for the Kindle case, that was a requirement -- it was only a matter of time before I carelessly dropped the unprotected Kindle on the ground.  But this isn't why I'm writing, back to the subject....

It takes me a good 2 hours to decide the next book I'm going to read... since I have a limited period of time each day to devote to a book, it had better be a good one!  I'm not one of these speed readers that can blow through a book in no time, I typically chug at a 20 page clip per night.  Anyway, I did my research on this book and it scored raving reviews... so I had some confidence that this one would be worth my while.  Here's the message that The Global Achievement Gap (Tony Wagner) tries to convey:

Why even our best schools don't teach the new survival skills our children need and what we can do about it.

Why this book received such good reviews is beyond me, I stuck to it and read this one thoroughly hoping that it would suddenly get better... but like the tv series Lost, something was missing.  This guy brings up some good points which I'll share in a bit, but he brings them up over-and-over again -- I felt like I was reading a freshman research paper.  Now I'm by no means what I would consider a good writer, but I can spot talent -- and have read much more engaging books in the past.

Issues where I think he's spot on:

  • Students are accustomed to having teachers tell them what to do.
    • I couldn't agree more.  THINK people!  Figure it out yourself, I'd take the wrong answer at the expense of a great effort any day.  Many kids/adults just want to know the right answer and move on -- what are you gaining here?
  • Tests are too focused on mastery of factual content-at the expense of research, reasoning, and analysis -  I can tell you that Albert Einstein proved E=mc^2.
  • Lead by influence rather than authority
  • Many kids seem to think that interrupting adults whenever they wanted something was their birthright - Discipline!
  • ..a tendency of some teachers to accept mediocrity, a low level of performance from students.
  • I can't think of any classroom that did anything but prepare me for tests, I did well because I knew how to take tests-but now I can't recall a thing.
  • "Parents shouldn't worry so much about how their children are doing in school.  They should find out more about what their extracurricular interests are".
  • First, it's not about more content.  AP courses are a mile wide and an inch deep...... Second.. it's not just about more complex content, it's about deepening the quality of the analysis.
  • Less is more, depth over coverage.
  • Demonstration of mastery - Perfect practice makes perfect.
  • Research, writing, and effective oral communication matter far more than performance on multiple choice tests - I've discussed this with one of my friends in the past here in MI.  He always says:  If you can master the english language you can do anything -- I completely agree.
  • I do not believe that all students need to go to college to have a rewarding and successful life. 

These were just some of the highlights I pulled (and repeated throughout the book ad-nauseam) -- great points nonetheless.  However the one factor lacking from this book -- the PARENTS!!  I got the sense that the author truly believes educational institutions can one day be an assembly line which cranks out perfect students that are prepared to make the world a better place.  PARENTS, by far, play a bigger role than the teacher.  Take some of the good points I highlighted above,  these are all things that a parent can (and should) teach their children from the first day they can understand:
  •   Students are accustomed to having teachers tell them what to do - Think for yourselves first.  Make a solid effort and share your reasoning.
  • Lead by influence rather than authority.
  • Demonstration of mastery.
  • Many kids seem to think that interrupting adults whenever they wanted something was their birthright - This is easily avoidable.

There are also examples in this book that put the burden on the teacher and not on the parent as well:


  • How do we both support our educators and hold them more accountable for results? - If a parent doesn't like what a teacher is doing -- take action, find another teacher, school, etc.
  • How do we ensure that every student has an adult advocate in his or her school who knows the student well?  Maybe in cases where the student has a rough home life.
 
Bottom line is the author does understand the issues in how the majority of schools across the U.S. (do not) teach material... but lacks the discussion on the importance of how a child is raised.  The title of the book had me intrigued at first as well, I thought there was going to be an in-depth discussion about schools around the world and how their cultures played a key role in their success -- bad assumption.  And don't get me wrong, I do think some teachers can (and do) greatly impact a child's future... I just take issue with placing the burden on the teachers for more accountability of student results when clearly this is something the parents have significant influence over.

Monday, June 21, 2010

Back in the Hometown


We visited Uncle Jeremy and Aunt Jackie for the weekend.  This was our first extended road trip with real potty breaks -- incident free.   

It was a relaxing weekend (weather was perfect) and Dylan took full advantage... that's how I used to enjoy the nice weather.  




Happy 3rd Birthday Cailee!


We stopped by the Cinquino home for Cailee's 3rd.  Yet another SMALL birthday party, equipped with party tent and bounce house... food was great as well.  Perfect weather for a party and all the kids had a great time.




Maddie leaning in for a photo op... 

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Stall Tactics


Our princess is the master of procrastination when the situation is right.  Example - we're on a 20 minute wagon ride around the neighborhood -- then, all of a sudden (300ft from our house), she no longer wants to ride in the wagon, for some reason she now wants to pull the wagon the rest of the way (which extends the duration of the trip considerably).  Keep in mind that for the past 20 minutes she sat like a princess, head tilted just-so, with the warm spring/summer breeze blowing through her hair.  As with all things our princess does, she likes to do them at one pace -- Maddie's pace.

Friday, June 11, 2010

The Final Touch


Minutes before Avery and Chelsea left on Sunday I busted out the paints for a quick art session.  While Maddie and Chelsea spent some quality time at the kitchen table working on their masterpieces -- Avery and the rest of Chelsea's family were waiting patiently in the car while they finished up... never distract creative minds.

New Look

I have been resisting the background update for some time, and for good reason.... I mean, after all, it's the content that matters.... plus I thought the old plain background said something about myself as well -- keep your comments to yourself.

But when they dangled the carrot in front of me today I had to try.  There's a new feature on the blog which makes it rather easy to jazz up the site.  After 30 minutes of messing around, I arrived at this new look -- I like it, I guess that's all that matters... and in case you were wondering, it did get the official stamp of approval as well.  I do feel like I went a bit commercial though.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Changing Fast


Dylan's first tooth starting coming through last week at 0Y9Ms,  Madison was approximately 0Y8Ms old for her first tooth (see link).  I can't remember if she had any issues with teething other than constant drool.  To the best of my knowledge it wasn't so bad, not much waking up in the middle of the night, etc...  hopefully the same goes for Little D.  Anyway, this guy is starting to change quickly too.  Yesterday he sat up on his own, I'm sure we're getting close to the crawling stage.  Let me tell you this guy is going to get his hands into everything too.  At this age Madison was content with one toy and really wouldn't need much else to keep her happy.  Dylan on the other hand, grabs everything in site!  Fun times ahead for sure, I can't wait until Maddie and Dylan can start playing together.

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Maddie-a-Gascar Birthday Bash


Maddie's 3rd birthday bash was a hit!  We threw her party at Pump-It-Up, did the bounce thing for an hour or so, and then it was on to pizza and cake.  This was our first real party with a good amount of kids, majority of them being 5 or younger... pretty easy looking back on it.  I spent most of my time going down the bouncy slide -- usually with two kids in hand on each trip down (one time I had 3 with me!), which by the way was against the rules... fortunately the Pump-It-Up security did not call me out on it.  

I asked Maddie what her favorite part was today, and to my surprise, it was the slide!  



Little D


Chelsea, Madison and Avery.









Thursday, June 3, 2010

Another Day at the Pool



We took Maddie to the pool last weekend while Nana stayed at home with Little D.  Trying to get her more comfortable around water -- there's a 5 minute warmup period -- but once she's in, Maddie has a blast.  After 20 minutes or so in the kiddie pool I took her around the lazy river and whirlpool... there was a clear preference for the lazy river, probably ended up doing 20 laps.